Supporting Senior Newcomers: Meet Alkhouli

Alkhouli Mowafak, a 75-year-old Syrian refugee, and his wife have recently settled in Hamilton, Ontario, after fleeing the devastation of war in Syria to go to Egypt, and eventually to Canada. They left behind their home and farm, sacrificing the lives they knew to gain safety for their family. “We left everything in Syria,” Alkhouli says. While one of his sons was able to come to Canada with them as a caregiver, unfortunately, two of his sons are still in Syria, a son and daughter are in Egypt, and another son is in Turkey, some with children of their own. 

After arriving in Canada from Egypt just four months ago, the couple found help and support through Wesley in the welcoming, kind environment of the Resettlement Assistance Program (RAP). They enjoyed their one-month stay at RAP before moving into a rental house. 

Their initial support from Wesley, including help with paperwork, opening bank accounts, and medical appointments, has been invaluable. Maddie, their Newcomer Seniors Support Worker, continues to assist them, using a translator to communicate to ensure their needs are met. 

Life in Canada presents its own set of challenges. Alkhouli and his wife, who are both in poor health, rely on their son for care. He recently fell and broke his arm in multiple places, requiring surgery. She has an upcoming knee surgery and is mostly immobile. They need support through their illnesses and older age, and having all their children with them would make a big difference.  

Being unable to work because of their health and age, the couple struggles with the high costs of living, at times finding it hard to afford even basic necessities. Their son is working hard to learn English and find Arabic communities nearby to connect with in hopes of finding work. Their limited English also contributes to a sense of isolation. They often feel stuck at home, unable to navigate easily or afford taxis.  

Despite the difficulties, Alkhouli and his wife are adapting to their new life. They value Canada’s safety and the orderliness of its systems, which are a welcome change from the chaos they experienced in Syria and Egypt. “The rules here keep people safe and equal,” Alkhouli observes. Even when waiting at the hospital for long periods of time, they recognize that waiting means that everyone will get a turn, something many of us often take for granted.  

Having heard about the beauty of the diverse Canadian landscapes, the family aspires to see other parts of the country. “Canada is so nice and so beautiful,” Alkhouli says.  “There is peace here.”  They feel very safe but very sad and worried for their children who are not. 

Their main goal now is to learn English, integrate into the community, and eventually bring their children to Canada. “Our biggest wish is to reunite with our children,” Alkhouli says. 

Alkhouli expresses deep gratitude for the support from Wesley that will continue for a year after their arrival. It is important for organizations to support refugees in their senior years because they are unable to work but deserve the safety that Canada has to offer.  

The Mowafak family’s journey demonstrates the resilience of the human spirit and the vital role of community support for refugees of all ages. As they adjust to their new life in Canada, their story highlights the importance of compassion and hope for a better future. 

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